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Mary Ann
Garner-Isom
February 26, 1955 – August 16, 2024
Mary Ann Garner was born on February 26, 1955, in Slaughter, Mississippi, to Will and Annie Mae Dixon (Garner). She grew up in a large, close-knit family of twelve siblings. From a young age, Mary Ann embodied resilience and dedication.
In 1955, Mary Ann's family moved under the cover of darkness to Tyronza, Arkansas, to escape the threats of the Ku Klux Klan. This move was one of many challenges that Mary Ann would face and overcome with determination.
Mary Ann's education was marked by her strong will and academic achievements, despite the societal challenges she faced. She attended Verlinden Elementary and J.W. Sexton High School in Lansing, Michigan, where she excelled in 4-H Club, Jr. Achievement, and sports. Her talent and dedication earned her an art scholarship to Michigan State University, a notable achievement during a time when opportunities for students of color were limited.
Her sense of duty and resilience extended beyond her academic pursuits when she joined the United States Army, serving with distinction in the Women's Army Corps during a transformative period for women in the military. According to her military records from 1975, Mary Ann, holding the rank of PV2, was assigned to various training programs, including Basic Training and Advanced Individual Training (AIT) at the United States Army Institute of Administration at Fort Benjamin Harrison, Indiana. Her military orders highlight her commitment to her role, despite the challenges of the time. Her training included specialized programs at Fort Jackson, South Carolina, underscoring her adaptability and perseverance. The Army recognized her potential, with her superiors noting her resilience and dedication.
One of the cherished memories from her time in the Army was when her fellow servicemen James, had leave at the same time as Mary Ann. James accompanied her home to meet their mother, as Mary Ann always spoke fondly of her. She often said that any of her fellow servicemen who came on leave with her left saying how much they enjoyed Momma's cooking—a testament to the warmth and hospitality that defined their family.
Mary Ann's strength was further highlighted in a heartfelt letter to her mother dated September 9, 1975. She detailed her experiences in the military, capturing the challenges she faced and her determination to persevere. Despite the harsh conditions and limited communication with loved ones, she expressed hope for the future and a deep connection to her family, particularly recalling James's fondness for their mother's cooking.
Mary Ann married, but her marriage was tumultuous and ultimately ended in divorce. Despite the difficulties in her personal life, she remained strong and independent, navigating her path with courage.
A significant part of Mary Ann's life was marked by her struggles with mental wellness. She spent many years in and out of mental wellness institutions, facing challenges with bravery and resilience. Her journey through mental health challenges was a testament to her strength, even in the face of profound adversity.
In her later years, Mary Ann relocated to Okemos, Michigan, where she continued to build a life despite her struggles. Known for her generosity and warm spirit, she touched the lives of those she encountered, even though her years were often spent in silence and isolation. One of the greatest sources of joy in her later years was the visits from her eldest nephew, Cornelius Garner. Cornelius took great pride in visiting Mary Ann, and she eagerly looked forward to his visits, even when she sometimes refused others. These visits were a testament to the deep bond they shared and the comfort they found in each other's company.
Mary Ann loved to travel and found solace in simple pleasures and moments of peace and reflection. Despite her challenges, she maintained a spirit of kindness and generosity, always willing to help others when she could.
Mary Ann was preceded in death by: her parents, Will and Annie Mae Garner; brothers, Charles Garner, Steve Garner, Sylvester Garner, and Willie Dixon; sisters, Arlene (Penny) Garner and Bettie Joe Garner. She leaves to cherish her memory: her siblings, Clyde Garner, Maurice/George (Darla) Garner, Ollie Grayson, Maggie Ishmel, Betsy Ford; and a host of nieces, nephews, and distant relatives who will remember her for her strength and resilience.
Her life was a testament to the power of resilience and the enduring spirit of a woman who faced many trials. She will be remembered for her strength, the quiet impact she had on those around her, and the deep love she had for her family. Mary Ann will be deeply missed but never forgotten.
Services for Ms. Garner-Isom are as follows:
Galilee Baptist Church
Starts at 11:00 am
Evergreen Cemetery
Starts at 12:30 pm
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